English in Scenes

After a low point, the next stage is adjustment.

走過低谷後，下一個階段是磨合。

Adjustment means learning to live with each other's differences.

磨合是指學會與彼此的差異共處。

No two people are exactly the same.

沒有兩個人是完全一樣的。

Partners often have different habits, needs, and ways of thinking.

伴侶常常有不同的習慣、需求和思考方式。

These differences are not the real problem.

這些差異本身不是真正的問題。

The real skill is learning how to handle them.

真正的能力是學會如何處理它們。

Good communication is the most important tool.

良好的溝通是最重要的工具。

It means listening carefully, not just waiting to speak.

這代表仔細傾聽，而不只是等著開口。

It also means saying how you feel in a calm and honest way.

也代表用平靜且誠實的方式說出你的感受。

Instead of saying "You never listen," try saying "I feel ignored."

與其說「你從來不聽」，試著說「我覺得被忽略了」。

This small change makes the other person less defensive.

這個小改變讓對方比較不會防備。

Compromise is another key part of adjustment.

妥協是磨合的另一個關鍵。

When both people give a little, both people feel respected.

當兩個人各退一步，雙方都會覺得被尊重。

Over time, couples build their own rules and routines.

久而久之，情侶會建立起自己的規則與習慣。

They learn what to accept and what to talk about.

他們學會什麼該接受，什麼該溝通。

Adjustment takes patience, but it makes the bond stronger.

磨合需要耐心，但它讓關係更堅固。

In the final part, we will see how couples grow together for the long run.

在最後一集，我們將看到情侶如何長久地一起成長。